Top Ten Things Women Should Know About Men.

By Angel Za

1. There are two types of men - the honorable and the dishonorable man.
You must never get married until you learn to tell the difference between the two types of men. Your life will be trashed if you choose to be with a man who has no integrity and self-control.

2. Good men need to be treated like good men - and dishonorable males are meant to be left alone.
Ladies - we should adore, support, and give well-earned respect to our good men who do try their best to handle their responsibilities. No man is perfect, but the ones that really do try their best - these men are such treasures, and they will never turn back to the women that hate them simply for the things that the other dishonorable men do. Do stroke their ego sometimes and respect their manhood. If he deserves your praise, then give him praise - and often. Please cherish him.

3. Deceitful, manipulative, promiscuous and selfish women are not worthy of an honorable man.
They never were and never will be.

4. Dishonorable men do not practice self-control in limiting blood flow between his brain and his stick.
It doesn’t matter if you are the hottest thing in town; he would still sleep around - and sooner or later, give you a disease or two on top of it.

5. The dishonorable man treats sex as a de-stressing sport, you as a trophy, and any child as a result of your relationship as simply a by-product.
If he doesn’t care about the kids, treats you like a whore, and he doesn’t mind his friends’ sleaziness or bad-mouthing you - leave him.

6. If he pressures you to lower your standards on sexuality / is demanding of sex from you / talks lustily with you - and most especially if you are not his girlfriend or his wife -
There is no need to contemplate or wonder. He does not honor or respect you.

7. He doesn't take dating very seriously.
These men view relationships as transitory - which, in reality, prepares them for divorce rather than marriage. Would you like to date an overgrown child who plays with your feelings and treats you like a new toy - and then discards you when bored? You may want to say that dating should be just for fun, but it's no fun when one person is taking it seriously and the other isn't.

8. If you choose to be with the dishonorable male -
You have no right to whine or cry if you choose to hang on to those uncouth, barbaric, bastard men who manipulate, threaten, lie and undermine you. They torch your emotions; abuse you; leave you pregnant and alone; jeopardize your safety [if children are in the picture, than your 'romance' is jeopardizing their safety as well], and is otherwise harming or hurting you. There are many men out there who enjoy hurting women in any way they can; it gives them a sense of control and power. If you choose to be with such an abusive man, be sure to be his punching bag and door mat. Please indulge and enjoy every bit of heartache that you choose to keep holding onto - and don’t torment your genuine friends and any family members that actually do care about you, with listening to your complaints if you choose to ignore any and all advice. Remember! - “Zero” tolerances. You have the power to choose, and if you choose to remain with that type of man, than this is the type of life that you've chosen. Enjoy every minute of it.

9. "But everyone has hidden vices."
Wrong! Throw your own skeletons out of your closet, and don’t let them handicap you further - and be fair to the honorable men that are out there, as well. Don’t judge every man because of the actions of the stupid, selfish and dishonorable ones.

10. "By sticking around him and killing off other competitors, he’s going to marry me some day!"
"If we sleep together, will he like me better?" "If I move in with him, is he going to marry me?” The answer: “Not Likely”. Doubt me? Feel free to examine the ever-growing list of disillusioned women who are waiting for their non-committal lover to marry them. After going over what makes a man a dishonorable one, ladies - do you honestly believe that such a man would marry the woman who is desperate for him? And even if he did - do you honestly believe that he is the type of man who is willing to live up to his vows, or view his wife as a hindrance / spare tire?

NOTE TO SELF.